Essential Malaysian Cultural Etiquette for International Students Before Arriving

10 October 2025

Malaysia is among the finest countries in Asia to host international students. Once you are aware of how to greet someone, what to wear, how to engage in conversation, and so forth, it will make your life here easier with the warmth of the locals, an excellent education system and experience, and a multitude of supportive multiculturalism. 

At BCES Admissions Abroad, we believe in education abroad, not just for education, but to experience the new lifestyle and culture. Being respectful of Malaysian customs and traditions will definitely help you feel empowered to embrace your next life shift and enjoy your student experience in Malaysia.

1. Honor Malaysia’s Culture and Multi-Faith

Malaysia is a singular mix comprising the Malaysian, Chinese, and Indian cultures, as well as indigenous backgrounds. Although the official religion is Islam, there is also a population of Buddhists, Hindus, Christians, and others. If you want to be respectful of the culture, it would be good for you to know the following: in being respectful of the culture, being aware of sensitivities in Malaysia means dressing modestly, covering your arms, shoulders, and legs depending on whether or not you are entering a mosque or temple and are asked to remove your shoes. Furthermore, if you are there while the Muslim community is celebrating Ramadan, do not eat or drink in public to the best of your ability during the designated fasting hours and you may even add in a couple of the smaller gestures, such as saying “Salam” (which means peace, hello), to anyone, or simply smile and say, “Terima Kasih.” The people of Malaysia will support you and will absolutely want to share a conversation with you right away.

2. Dress with Respect and Confidence

In Malaysia, fashion is a mixture of modern and modest styles. You can wear very casual clothes including t-shirts and jeans, but do not wear revealing outfits in public or visit religious sites. While on campus, attention is given to the “neat” and “clean” dress code. Observing the Malaysian dress code is not just a show of respect for the local community, but it can also help you in terms of being comfortable socially and academically. 

3. Greetings and Communication Norms 

Malaysia, a country known for its polite and reserved personality, usually greets with a friendly handshake, nod, or smile. When greeting elders or faculty in a classroom, two hands are the formal greeting; if you use one hand, be sure to place your right hand on your chest. This gesture is the Malaysian sign of respect. Conversations are usually given to formality and are quiet, since raising your voice or being direct is seen as rude behavior when searching for social harmony in a conversation.

4. Dining and Table Manners 

Food in many cultures is essential, and when dining out or being invited into a Malaysian home, begin eating only after the host has started. Food should be passed or eaten with the right hand only; the left hand is considered impolite for eating and sharing food. Many Malaysians eat food with their hands when a dish is suggestive of that; other Malaysians may prefer the spoon and fork. Muslims will certainly keep halal food in mind, as do you, when dining with friends and eating; when unsure, try to avoid offering pork or alcohol unless there is certainty that is acceptable.

5. Public Behavior and Manners

Malaysians value warmth and modesty are widely appreciated in a public place. It is best to avoid showing affection to someone in public such as hugging or kissing as that could gain scrutiny in a conservative area. Always pick your words carefully while using courteous language. Refrain from discussing sensitive topics such as religion or politics with people whom you do not know very well. Generally being considerate in your words and actions conveys that you respect the mannerisms of Malaysian social etiquette.

6. Respecting Elders and Educators

Respecting one’s elders and educators is ingrained in Malaysian culture. Always greet elders first and offer your seat if necessary. If you are speaking with a teacher or instructor who is older, please speak to them using the term “Encik” (Mr.). When referring to elderly females, please use “Puan” (Mrs.). When referring to younger females, please use the term “Cik” (Miss). These small acts of courtesy are a good way to show your understanding of Malaysian etiquette and help you earn respect in return.

7. Honoring Malaysia’s Multicultural Character

Malaysia has a wide variety of festivals—up to four festivals are celebrated in a given year surrounding Hari Raya, Deepavali, Chinese New Year, and Thaipusam, to name a few. In fact, students can participate in festivals that allow them to experience the very best of Malaysian multiculturalism. It is a wonderful opportunity to develop friendships and taste the local foods, as well as to receive first-hand experience of the cultural diversity and harmony of Malaysia.

8. Campus Etiquette Tips for Students Who are International 

Local and Malaysian universities want international students to be able to feel welcome and open in their learning environment of respect in their lives. Please be on time, pay attention in class, and be polite and courteous to your professors and teachers in a respectful manner. When a professor is lecturing, please do not interrupt them, and unless otherwise given permission, please use their proper title. Academic etiquette will help your transition to living and studying in Malaysia, and it will be a positive first impression with your teachers. 

9. Cleanliness and Respect for the Environment 

Cleanliness is a very important factor for Malaysians. Throwing litter or smoking in public can often get you fined. International students need to keep the cleanliness and organization of their dorms, classes, and outdoor areas tidy and organized while being respectful for the environment. When students practice being clean and organized, they are acting on behalf of Malaysia’s sustainability and public responsibility.

10. Adjusting to the Culture of Malaysian Society

Here are some simple suggestions for adapting to life in Malaysia:

• Learn some basic Malay words and greetings.
• Remain patient and calm during social events.
• Engage in campus clubs and community activities to experience student life in Malaysia.
• Be grateful and kind when and wherever possible — it’s at the heart of Malaysian culture.

Living, studying, and working in Malaysia is a rich experience for students from around the world. By respecting local customs, being open to new ideas, and being genuinely interested in the traditions and culture of the place, you’ll feel welcome in this great country in no time.

If you want guidance on university choice, visa process and support, or cultural preparation before you leave, contact us today at +91 9319996330.